Your Self-Image Shapes Your World. Let’s Redesign It.
No more overthinking, apologizing, or holding back. It’s time to step into your Next Era with confidence, beauty, and a self-image that feels fully alive.
school of self image
Not Just a Membership – The Membership.
Your self-image is the foundation of everything you create. It shapes how you think, how you carry yourself, and what you believe is possible.
And here’s the truth: you can only create to the edge of your self-image.
That’s why the School of Self-Image membership is one of a kind. It’s the only place where mindset, style, and surroundings come together to elevate the very core of who you are – so you can expand your vision, your possibilities, and your life.
This Month's Focus:
An Abundant Self-Image
The story of “not enough?” It was never yours to carry. This month, step into overflow – not by chasing it, but by embodying the woman who already lives there.
The woman you’re becoming doesn’t operate from scarcity. She knows there’s always more where that came from.
upgrade your inner style
Is Your Self-Image Out Of Style?
Like an outdated wardrobe, an outdated self-image keeps you stuck in the same tired looks – aka patterns.
Maybe you’ve noticed yourself caught in a few of these:
Look No. 01
Constantly second-guessing yourself. Spinning in indecision, worrying about the “wrong” move, never fully trusting your choices.
Look No. 02
Living in overwhelm. A packed calendar, a cluttered mind, and your own desires always pushed aside.
Look No. 03
Editing yourself for approval. Shrinking for others’ opinions instead of expressing your own.
Look No. 04
Starting over again and again. New routines, new goals, new promises… only to slip back into old patterns.
Look No. 05
Living in lack. Constantly worrying there’s never enough time, money, or energy, leaving you chasing instead of creating.
Every woman gets stuck in these outdated patterns – but you don’t have to stay there. In the School of Self-Image, you’ll finally learn how to retire them – and curate a version of yourself that feels unmistakably you, only elevated.
TESTIMONIALS
It All Begins Inside the Membership
The Tools to Curate Your Self-Image
The Self-Image Method
Your signature framework for lasting reinvention. Instead of chasing habits, you’ll learn how to transform the woman behind them – so change becomes natural and inevitable.
The Self-Image Studio
Your framework for achieving goals and elevating your self-image – 30 days at a time. This process turns your vision into tangible steps, helping you create momentum and results without overwhelm.
The Monthly Live Studio Sessions
Your ongoing practice space. Each month, you’ll bring your Self-Image Studio plans to life with guided support, feedback, and accountability – so you stay consistent and see real progress.
The Monthly Class
An elegant deep dive into a fresh theme each month – confidence, style, well-being, success, and more. These lessons elevate how you think, feel, and show up in every area of life.
The Monthly Live Calls (Coaching + Q&A)
Bring your real-life questions and challenges, and leave with clarity, confidence, and next steps tailored to your journey.
The Community
An inspiring, global circle of women who are reinventing right alongside you. Celebrate wins, share insights, and know you’re never doing this alone.
The Hottest Trend Right Now?
These Results.
Result No. 01
Owning your choices and walking through life with the clarity and confidence of a woman who knows exactly what she wants.
Result No. 02
Feeling spacious, joyful, and calm – like slipping into your favorite outfit that just fits.
Result No. 03
Showing up fully expressed – magnetic in your presence, unapologetic in your desires, and finally living as the woman you’ve always known you were meant to be.
Result No. 04
Relationships, boundaries, and opportunities rise to your new standard – because people can’t help but respond to the energy of the woman you’ve become.
Result No. 05
Attracting abundance in every form – money, time, opportunities – because a woman who knows her worth never lives in lack.
Real Members + Real Experiences...
How It Works
No. 01
Take the First Step
Join the School of Self-Image and unlock The Self-Image Method, the Self-Image Studio framework, and core resources to begin your reinvention. (Annual members also get instant access to the archive of past classes – think of it as your private collection.)
No. 02
Choose Your Path
No. 03
Experience the Ripple Effect
Monthly Subscription
$97/month
- The Self-Image Method and Studio
- Monthly Self-Image Class
- Monthly Live Studio Sessions
- Monthly Live Coaching + Q&A Calls
- Progressive Access to the Library of 60+ Past Classes (unlock 1 each month)
- Global Community of Like-Minded Women
- Cancel anytime
Best Value!
Annual Subscription
$997/year
- The Self-Image Method and Studio
- Monthly Self-Image Class
- Monthly Live Studio Sessions
- Monthly Live Coaching + Q&A Calls
- Instant Access to the Entire Library of 60+ Past Classes (get the whole collection at once)
- Global Community of Like-Minded Women
- Cancel anytime
Plus...
- 2 months free compared to monthly
- One decision, one payment, 12 months of continuous support
- Perfect for the woman ready to fully commit to her Next Era
Staying Stuck Is More Expensive Than You Think
Every day you hesitate, you’re already paying:
- Opportunities that slip by because you said "not yet."
- Energy wasted in the endless loop of what-ifs.
- Dreams that keep waiting for "someday".
But the moment you elevate your self-image, the return starts stacking:
- Confidence feels natural, not forced.
- Decisions flow with clarity (no pros/cons list required).
- Life expands. Style, success, self-expression – all of it.
And the best part? It costs less than your monthly coffee habit or those “oops, it jumped into my cart” impulse buys. Only this time, you’re investing in change that actually lasts.
One year. Big energy. Lasting change.
When you join with an annual membership, you’ll:
- Save 2 months of membership fees
- Unlock all 60+ classes instantly (no waiting, no drip).
Questions
What if I don’t know where to start?
That’s exactly why we have The Self-Image Method and the Studio. They give you a clear, simple framework to follow – so you’ll always know your next step.
How much time will this take each month?
Do I have to be into fashion to benefit?
What if I’ve tried personal development before and it didn’t stick?
Will I get personal access to Tonya?
What’s the difference between monthly and annual membership?
Can I cancel my membership?
Monthly memberships can be canceled anytime. Annual memberships are a one-time commitment for the year and cannot be canceled – but they do come with extra savings and added resources.
What's the return on my investment?
TESTIMONIALS
Other Programs Change Your To-Do List. We Change You.
The SOSI Approach
- Redesigns your self-image – the root of every habit, choice, and result
- Adapts to your unique vision, energy, and stage of life
- Focuses on becoming, not forcing – so change feels natural and lasting
- Gives you a flexible framework (The Method + The Studio) that you can make your own
- Creates alignment at the source, so your life rises with ease and elegance
Most Programs
- Focus only on habits or surface behaviors
- Offer rigid steps and quick fixes that never last
- Emphasize doing more, pushing harder, striving for perfection
- Take a one-size-fits-all approach that ignores individuality
- Leave you stuck repeating the same patterns, frustrated, and starting over
Here's results you can expect
Implement a proven framework for lasting change (no more starting over).
Catch limiting thoughts early and shift into ones that move you forward.
Design your days with intention so your schedule reflects who you’re becoming.
Master your emotions so they fuel your goals instead of blocking them.
Utilize a guided practice each month that keeps you focused, aligned, and on track.
Hi There!
I’m Tonya Leigh
the woman who swapped hustle for Champagne.
For years, I measured my worth by numbers – on the scale, in my bank account, and on my endless to-do lists. On paper, I was doing all the “right things.” Behind the scenes, I was exhausted, overthinking, and constantly asking: When will it ever feel like enough?
No matter how much I achieved, the finish line kept moving. I hustled harder, but the joy, freedom, and confidence I craved always stayed out of reach.
The 2AM Question
That Changed Everything
One night on a night shift as a nurse, a doctor asked me a question I’ll never forget: “Who do you want to be?”
Not what do you want to achieve, weigh, or earn – who do you want to be?
That question cracked me wide open. Reinvention, I realized, doesn’t come from another plan or checklist. It comes from changing the way you see yourself.
When I shifted my self-image, the weight lifted – physically, mentally, emotionally.
Opportunities expanded. And I finally stepped into the woman I’d been longing to become.
The School of
Self-Image Was Born
That 2AM question didn’t just change my life – it became the foundation of the work I now share with women around the world.
Through the School of Self-Image, I’ve poured 15+ years of coaching, study, and personal reinvention into a membership designed to meet you where you are – and carry you into your Next Era.
Inside, you’ll curate your self-image like your most stylish wardrobe: editing out limits, adding in the extraordinary, and creating a life that feels decadent, spacious, and unapologetically yours.
This isn’t another pile of courses you’ll never finish or a quick fix that fades. It’s the complete library of my life’s work – curated, elevated, and proven to transform not just what you do, but who you become.
No matter how much I achieved, the finish line kept moving. I hustled harder, but the joy, freedom, and confidence I craved always stayed out of reach.
This is a fit if...
- You’re done waiting for “someday” and want it now.
- You want to upgrade more than just your wardrobe – you want to elevate your whole vibe.
- You love a little Champagne with your self-development.
This is not a fit if...
- You’re hunting for a magic wand or miracle pill.
- You prefer binging on self-help over actually doing it.
- You’re satisfied with “good enough”
Decisions shape destinies, and this one shapes yours.
If you want this to be the year you finally commit to:
- Dropping the excuses and stepping boldly into who you’re meant to be.
- Claiming your self-worth without apology.
- Finally seeing yourself as the woman you’ve always dreamed of becoming.
- Living with clarity, courage, and unstoppable confidence.
- Creating a self-image so magnetic, the rest of your life rises to meet it.
Choose Your Adventure...
Monthly Subscription
$97/month
- The Self-Image Method and Studio
- Monthly Self-Image Class
- Monthly Live Studio Sessions
- Monthly Live Coaching + Q&A Calls
- Progressive Access to the Library of 60+ Past Classes (unlock 1 each month)
- Global Community of Like-Minded Women
- Cancel anytime
Best Value!
Annual Subscription
$997/year
- The Self-Image Method and Studio
- Monthly Self-Image Class
- Monthly Live Studio Sessions
- Monthly Live Coaching + Q&A Calls
- Instant Access to the Entire Library of 60+ Past Classes (get the whole collection at once)
- Global Community of Like-Minded Women
- Cancel anytime
Plus...
- 2 months free compared to monthly
- One decision, one payment, 12 months of continuous support
- Perfect for the woman ready to fully commit to her Next Era
Everything changes when you decide to become a woman who sees herself differently.
I joined 6 months ago and I have no regrets ! I will be a member for the rest of my life !
JOIN – the VALUE is unbeatable. You will not regret it if you show up!!!!!!
My annual membership purchase last September was some of the BEST money I’ve ever spent – FABULOUS INVESTMENT!
I’m never going to leave!!! 🤣
SOSI, Tonya, and this sisterhood will CHANGE your life…for the Best version of you!
Best thing I’ve *ever* done for my self image!!! 😊💖