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Hi there, I’m
Tonya Leigh...
Founder of the School of Self-Image, voice of the much-loved podcast by the same name, and creative force behind The Style Experience.
My Southern mama always taught me to make guests feel welcome, so I hope you’ll kick off your heels, pour yourself something delicious, and stay awhile.
Welcome to what we call SOSI (short for School of Self-Image) —a space where women stop shrinking their desires and start living lives that feel as good as they look.
I know what it’s like to chase the dream job, the ideal body, the next big thing…only to feel like something’s still missing.
It wasn’t until I changed the way I saw myself – my self-image – that everything else began to shift.
Now, I’m on a mission to help women everywhere elevate how they see themselves so they can create a life that’s rich in beauty, joy, and bold self-expression.
What is Self-Image?
And why it matters to you.
You can change your outfit, your zip code, your job title…
But if you don’t change your self-image, you’ll keep creating more of the same.
Your self-image is the story you tell yourself about who you are, what you deserve, and what’s possible for you.
It quietly runs the show – determining how you dress, speak, spend, eat, love, lead, and attract.
Here’s the good news...
Self-image isn’t fixed.
It’s a decision.
A design.
A declaration.
And when you learn how to elevate it?
You stop shrinking your desires and start expanding your life.
You can follow the latest strategy.
Try another to-do list or ten-step plan.
But if you still feel stuck – or like you’re living on repeat –
It’s time to work
at the identity level.
That’s what we do inside the School of Self-Image.
Join over 4,000 women who are rewriting their stories, upgrading their lives, and becoming the most magnetic version of themselves.
It’s not self-help. It’s self-image.
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Meet Women Who Have Elevated Their Self-Image
“I came to Tonya and her team feeling broken – a woman with low self-confidence and full of worry... When I joined SOSI, I knew I wanted big changes, but I never imagined they’d come so quickly....
In just 11 months, I’ve lost 15 pounds, nearly reaching my pre-pregnancy weight. I’ve been promoted from Supervisor to Manager, securing a salary 30% higher... I am a woman worthy of the change she wants to see in her life.”
- Katrina Bradley
“I felt resentful, unseen, and unloved in my marriage... [after joining] the School of Self-Image, I found myself feeling more truthful and more courageous. I began to speak up about buried hurts and filed for divorce.
Over the next 6 months, I found myself getting stronger. My husband took notice, and made a radical shift in his behavior... we decided to reconcile, and I received the most gorgeous new diamond to symbolize our Marriage 2.0”
- Sarah Faulkner
“I’d spent years helping everyone around me achieve their dreams instead of chasing my own. I was showing up for my own life like a side character instead of a leading lady!
Through SOSI, I’ve let go of so many limiting beliefs... I started writing again and have published six novels. The cherry on top is that a friend recently told me I’m aging in reverse! ”
- Courtney Thorton
“One of my deepest desires had always been to have a Tribe – a group of women who “get” each other, who love each other, who are there for each other through all walks of life...
My life has been forever changed by joining SOSI. I am excited to wake up in the morning, excited to do SOSI work, excited about my marriage. I am upleveling my home, my style, my mindset. The most amazing thing is how quickly my deepest desire came true: I’ve finally got a TRIBE!!”
- Chris Noetzel
“Before joining SOSI, my life was lacking meaning, and no matter how many times I changed my career, I ended up in the same toxic environment...
I joined SOSI to finish writing my book. (I did successfully publish my book!) I never realized that in the process, I’d rewrite my entire life. I learned how to highly value myself and only accept the best treatment. This took the form of me leaving my job, setting firm boundaries, becoming a real estate investor, and revitalizing my marriage. ”
- Alexis Siriani
“I joined SOSI because I had some big goals to achieve. Before, I struggled with procrastination and felt that some goals were not possible for me.
My life has completely transformed. I have achieved the goals I set when I joined – built a coaching business, graduated with my Master's, and feel confident going after my goals. ”
- Unyime Oguta
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