Let’s be honest – sometimes life doesn’t go as planned.

You set big intentions, envision how it’s all going to unfold, and then reality does what reality does – throws curveballs, challenges, and unexpected detours.

But here’s a mindset shift that changed everything for me:
Who cares what’s happened? Where are you now, and where are you going?

It’s easy to get caught up in what didn’t work, where you fell short, or how things didn’t go as planned. But spending energy replaying the past only keeps you stuck in it.

What if you decided, right here and now, to let it all go? To release the stories about how it “should” have been and focus instead on where you’re heading?

Imagine asking yourself:

  • Who do I want to be by the end of the year?
  • What do I want to feel proud of?
  • How can I look back and say, “Yes, I did that”?

When you decide to focus on where you’re going, something magical happens. 

You reclaim your power. 

You stop dwelling on the missteps.

You start stepping into the next chapter with intention and excitement.

Are you ready for a reset?  If so,  join us inside the School of Self-Image this month.

I’m leading members through The Mid-Year Reset, where you’ll get clear on where you’re going, learn how to collapse timelines, achieve more in less time, and make the next 6 months your best yet!


It’s not about what’s happened. It’s about where you’re going. And we’re doing it together.

If you’re not a member, join us inside the School of Self-Image, and let’s reset!

With love & determination,

The Art of Revival

It’s never too late to be what you might have been.

~ George Eliot

A reset isn’t about erasing what’s happened but choosing what happens next. Every moment is an invitation to begin again. To shed the weight of yesterday’s expectations. To step into tomorrow’s possibilities.

The most elegant transformations don’t require perfect timing or ideal circumstances. They require presence. The courage to look at where you are without judgment and ask: “What would I create from here?”

Gisou Honey-Infused Hair Oil

I just have to share this Gisou honey-infused hair oil – it’s basically magic in a bottle. A couple of drops before styling your hair, and suddenly you have that glossy, expensive-looking finish that makes people wonder what salon you just walked out of.

The Mirsalehi honey formula is genius – it gives you shine without the grease. Smoothness without the weight. Plus, it smells like you’ve been hanging out in the world’s most luxurious beehive (in the best way possible).

It’s become my effortless secret weapon. Bad hair day? Oil. Good hair day that needs a little extra? Oil. Hair that just needs to cooperate while I figure out the rest of my life? You guessed it… oil.

How to Make the Next Six Months Your Best Yet

Feeling like this year has been a bit of a mixed bag? You’re not alone. In this week’s episode, I’m diving into why mid-year can be the perfect time to redirect and refocus.

We’ll talk about the mindset shifts that make all the difference when you’re ready to turn the page, why “starting over” is actually a superpower, and how to approach the second half of the year with intention instead of pressure.

This conversation is for anyone ready to stop looking backward and start moving forward with clarity and confidence. Because the best plot twists happen when you decide to write them yourself.

// TheEDIT

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