Someone asked me recently, “Doesn’t all the striving for the next level ever wear you out?”

My immediate answer was “no” – because I don’t see growth as striving. I see it as living.

Because one day, when I look back on my life, I don’t just want to say I played it safe or stayed the same.

I want to know I tasted everything this life had to offer.

That I tested the edges of my own experience.

That I dared to go further – again and again.

For me, growth is what keeps me fully alive.

It’s not about fixing what’s “wrong.”

It’s about continually choosing possibility over predictability. 

It’s about the delicious tension between being content with where I am and still curious about who I could become.

Complacency has never been my style. Reinvention is.

And the secret?

When reinvention comes from self-love, from abundance, from a sense of wonder – it’s not exhausting, it’s exhilarating.

It’s how I fall in love with life, over and over again.

With Love & Possbility,

P.S. I’m busy reinventing myself again (because why not?). And instead of doing it in secret, I’m inviting SOSI members along for the ride. 

It’s 90 days of shaking things up, ditching old stories, and becoming that woman. And members will get a front-row seat to how I’m doing it. Want in? Join me in The 90-Day Reinvention.

Who You Think You Are

The curious paradox is that when I accept myself just as I am, then I can change.

~ Carl Rogers

Your identity isn’t fixed – it’s fluid. Yet most people unconsciously repeat the same “I’m just not that type of person” story for decades, never questioning if it was ever true.

Every day, you’re either reinforcing who you’ve always been or practicing who you’re becoming. There’s no neutral ground.

The women who transform their lives understand this: your self-image is the invisible thermostat controlling everything else. When you hold onto the same beliefs about who you are, you’ll keep getting the same results. But when you consciously upgrade how you see yourself? Everything shifts to match that new identity – automatically.

The 90-Day Reinvention

Your identity is the most powerful tool you have for transformation – and it’s also the most overlooked. This month inside the School of Self-Image, we’re getting crystal clear on who you are, who you’re becoming, and how to bridge that gap in just 90 days.

This isn’t about surface-level changes. It’s about rewiring the deepest beliefs you have about yourself and what’s possible for your life. 

When you shift your self-image, everything else – your relationships, your daily experience, AND your results – shifts to match.

Ready to become unrecognizable in the best possible way?

The Power of Self-Image and Why It Shapes Everything

This episode explores the invisible force that’s running your life: the picture you carry of yourself in your mind. I break down how your self-image acts like an inner thermostat, controlling everything from your confidence to your results, and why you can’t rise above how you see yourself.

I share the story of the 2AM question that changed everything for me, plus dive into the key ways self-image shapes your reality. This is foundational work that will shift how you see transformation itself.