I am a high-value woman.

Yep, I said it.

And maybe that makes a few people squirm.

But honestly – what’s the alternative? To call myself low value? To pretend I don’t know my worth so no one else feels uncomfortable?

Hard pass.

For way too long, women have been taught to play small, downplay their brilliance, and apologize for existing.

And where has that gotten us?

Tired, resentful, and waiting for scraps of validation. No thank you.

Around here, we’re about expansion. Which means stepping into the full truth of your value – and owning it out loud.

And no, I’m not talking about handbags or hashtags.

Being a high-value woman is about how you treat yourself.

It’s the standards you refuse to lower.

The boundaries you keep because you know you deserve the best treatment.

The energy you walk into a room with – the kind that says, “I know who I am, and I’m not here for discounts.”

Now your turn: What would change if you declared – without apology – “I am a high-value woman” and actually lived like it?

I dive into this in a brand-new podcast episode where I spill exactly what it means (and doesn’t mean) to be a high-value woman.

Listen now: What Is a High-Value Woman (And How to Become One).

With love (and full value),

The Value You Bring

A woman with a voice is, by definition, a strong woman.

~ Melinda Gates

Society. The internet. Your well-meaning friends. Everyone loves to tell women how to “become” high value.

Dress this way. Say these things. Don’t text back too fast. As if your worth is something you earn through performance.

But here’s the truth: you can’t become what you already are. Value isn’t acquired through tactics. It’s recognized, claimed, and lived. The question isn’t “How do I get high value?”, it’s “Why am I still pretending I’m not?”

Lioness Serenity Pants

Here’s your reminder that high-value isn’t about high price tags – it’s about how you style what you wear and the energy you bring to it. Case in point: these Lioness Serenity Pants. Recently, my daughter paired them with a vintage coat I’ve had for almost two decades, and my DMs lit up with women asking about the look (especially the pants).

They’re proof that you don’t need to spend a fortune to look elevated. With the right pairing – think classic layers, tailored accessories, and confident posture – even something sporty and relaxed becomes a statement of quiet luxury. Because being a high-value woman isn’t about the label… It’s about the presence you exude.

What is a High Value Woman (And How to Become One)

Let’s clear something up: most advice about being “high value” is actually teaching you to be low value – performing, chasing, manipulating. In this episode, I’m flipping the script entirely.

You’ll walk away understanding what value actually means (hint: it has nothing to do with handbags or dating strategies) and why the relationship with yourself is the only one that determines your worth.