Change can sometimes feel complicated.

There’s this framework, this morning routine, this 12-step process you’re supposed to follow.

But I’ve identified two questions that cut through all the noise and give me so much clarity on who I’m becoming and what I’m creating.

Here’s what I know to be true: your life is a reflection of the questions you ask yourself.

Ask better questions, live a better life.

And these two? They’ve shaped everything – my decisions, my energy, the way I show up in my business and my relationships.

They’re deceptively simple. But when you sit with them honestly, they’ll reveal exactly what needs to shift.

→ Listen to this week’s podcast to discover the questions.

Warmly,

What I allow reveals who I believe I am. 

Every small compromise, every “it’s fine,” every moment I settle – they’re all teaching my identity what to expect. 

When I name what I’m done tolerating, I reclaim my power. The shift isn’t in trying harder. It’s in becoming her.

Strathberry Multrees Fringe Bag

Sometimes the perfect bag finds you at exactly the right moment.

This Strathberry Multrees Fringe Bag caught my eye because it has a laid-back, wild sophistication without trying too hard –  structured yet soft, and with just enough edge.

The fringe detail adds movement (perfect for a woman who’s going places), while the clean lines keep it timeless. It’s the kind of bag that elevates everything you pair it with – from jeans and a white tee to your favorite dress.

How to Live a Life Full of Wonder and Everyday Magic 

What if the life you’re seeking isn’t out there somewhere – it’s right here, waiting for you to notice it?

In this week’s pre-Thanksgiving episode, I’m sharing how to cultivate wonder in the most ordinary moments. We’ll talk about why your brain is wired to miss magic (and how to rewire it), and the simple practice that’ll turn everyday moments into something worth remembering. 

This isn’t about toxic positivity – it’s about training your attention to see what’s actually here.

// TheEDIT

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