I had a wonderful a-ha moment the other day while journaling. I realized that for those of us who want to live extraordinary lives – which, around here, is all of us! – there are three areas we can upgrade. There are 3 Es of extraordinary living, and that’s what we’re...

Recently, my mentor joined me in Durango to talk about life and business for a few days. I was talking about my goals for the next year or so, and he listened closely. Then, when I was done telling him about everything I’m hoping to do, he said, “Tonya, you do realize...

Many of us think that life would be amazing – and easier – if we were suddenly rich.

Way back in episode 29, I introduced a question that really resonated with a lot of my listeners: Are you a princess, or a queen? Women love the idea of stepping into their queen-self, rather than remaining at the princess level. (If you haven’t heard that one, I...

Recently, I got a comment that really triggered me. My anger welled up so fast after reading it that I wanted to respond quickly and ferociously and give this person a piece of my mind.Thankfully I didn’t. I paused, took a deep breath, and asked myself, “Who do I want...