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The #1 Thing Your Dreams Ask of You
As you start to kick it into high gear to pursue your next BIG dream or goal, it’s super important that you understand what your dream is going to require of you. And what you think you’re going to need in order to make it happen, well… It’s NOT what you think....
Daring Women Dream . . . plus, the big reveal of my next exciting (and scary) goal
A few weeks ago, a woman asked me, “Tonya, what’s your BIG dream?Y’all, this question brings tears to my eyes. I feel like I’ve been growing into my dreams since I was a child.When I was 12 years old, my big dream was to win The North Carolina Rhododendron Princess....
Frenchie Friday: Even Elegant Women Get Pissed Off (A Rant about Self-Help)
The best personal development in the world is experiencing life, not reading about it. Yesterday, someone asked me: “What’s pissing you off these days?” Out of my mouth flew these words: “the whole self-help industry.” And, believe me, once a woman’s truth has been...
Vision Boards are a Waste of Time. Try this instead.
It was 2006. The book "The Secret" had just been released. Yes, the Law of Attraction buzz had officially arrived. And I was hooked. When I received my first invite to a vision board party, my RSVP was an immediate yes. As a gal who'll try almost anything once, I was...
Guess Where I Saw God?
It is a luxury to do something that serves no practical purpose: the luxury of civilization. I walked in and saw God. He wasn't wearing a turban or meditating in the shoe department. He wasn't passing out flyers or chanting om. He didn't come down the heavens (or...