Here’s what you may not know about me: dinner parties are my love language. 

And a boring one? My biggest nightmare.

There’s a certain energy some people bring into a room that makes everything feel more alive.

You know the ones – they elevate the conversation, make everyone feel seen, and somehow turn an ordinary evening into something memorable.

I’ve always been fascinated by this. 

What separates a forgettable dinner party from one you’re still thinking about weeks later?

As someone who loves great conversation, connection, and growth, I’ve discovered it comes down to one simple rule.

A rule that changed how I show up everywhere – not just at dinner parties, but in my work, my relationships, my entire life.

And here’s what surprised me: when I started living by this rule, it didn’t just change me. It changed the people around me.

Wondering what it is?

→ Listen to this week’s podcast to find out.

With love,

I am magnetic to what is meant for me.

Magnetism isn’t about chasing – it’s about becoming.

The more I settle into who I truly am, the more what’s aligned finds its way to me.

I don’t force. I attract.

Let’s Celebrate Together | The SOSI Holiday Party

Tomorrow, December 4, at 12PM PT / 3PM ET, we’re throwing our annual Holiday Party live on Zoom – and you’re invited. (Yes, there will be a replay.)

We are going to celebrate.
I’ll be sharing some soul-stirring truths.
And, we will be setting some powerful intentions.

Bring your favorite festive drink (or coffee in a fancy mug – we don’t judge), your realest self, and get ready for the kind of conversation that makes you remember why connection matters.

This is how we do holidays in SOSI – with intention, authenticity, and just the right amount of sparkle.

The Dinner Party Rule That Makes Everyone More Magnetic

What if you could transform any gathering – any meeting, any dinner, any ordinary Tuesday – simply by shifting what people notice?

I discovered this principle years ago, and it’s become my secret for creating magic in the most mundane moments. 

In this episode, I’m sharing how to set the tone for any environment, why celebration is a superpower, and the simple shift that makes you the person everyone wants at their table.

// TheEDIT

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