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These were the kinds of questions that consumed my mind for years: How do I lose weight? - What foods should I avoid? - How do I make more money? -How do I find a man? - How do I grow my income? - How do I deal with worry? The problem with this type of inquiry is that it feeds the belief that there’s a problem. It keeps you living in your challenges versus living in possibility.
These questions feel heavy, dull and full of fear. A lifetime of searching for the answers to them? A life filled heaviness, dullness and fear? Doesn’t sound so fabulous.
These kinds of questions simply kept me surviving.
But fully living?
Not at all.
My life changed when I upgraded the quality of my questions.
Now, I wake up asking things like:
What can I create today?
How can I inspire?
What amazing foods am I going to cook?
What fun adventures am I going to go on?
What am I going to write?
How will I love?
These kind of questions have led me to the most extraordinary life.
What kind of questions are you going to ask yourself today?
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Thank you, this is a great post! Asking bad questions can definitely give us bad answers.
I like that you included the question, "How will I love?" I ask myself everyday: "How much love can I give?" and it somehow prevents me from worrying if I have enough, or if I'm good enough. Amazing!
Hey, hey Hilary! I LOVE your question, "How much love can I give?" Doesn't it feel so good to give it?
Brilliant Tonya:) Love this perspective and the gorgeous, thought-reorganizing way you shared this wisdom. Thanks so much! xo
Aw...thanks so much Deana! Have a beautiful day!
I've been rolling these questions through my head now...and have written them down. Already thinking about how I can"re-direct" my thoughts to these types of questions each day. Thank you Tonya!
I can't wait to hear how this works for you Roxanne. Better quality questions changed my life.