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Money & Self-Image

How to attract the wealth you desire.

When you think about yourself and money, what comes to mind? Do you think you struggle with money? Would you simply love to have more of it? Or would you love to be someone who doesn’t worry about money at all? Whatever it is you believe, I can tell you that it all comes down […]

Declining Mediocrity

Declining Mediocrity Concept

Recently I asked someone how she was doing, and she said, “I’m at homeostasis. Balancing the good and the bad.” She was joking, of course, but it got me thinking. How can homeostasis possibly be satisfying?  Just being OK. Getting by. Making from day-to-day in a regular kind of way.  Ordinary. Very very far from […]

How to Live Like an Editor

How to live your life as an artistic expression of what’s possible.

What does it mean to live like an editor? Marc Jacobs once said, “Life is a series of creative choices.” So, to me, living like an editor means you ask yourself every time you make a decision whether you’re making a choice that honors your dreams, desires, and who you want to become. When you […]

Getting What You Want

Getting what you want concept pretty woman

Allow me to preface this post by saying this: You get to want what you want without apology.  I think this is so important to say because many women struggle with asking for, and getting, what they want and allowing that to be OK.  Now, the best way to get what you want from life […]

Fixing vs. Creating Yourself

How to grow and evolve to create a new version of yourself.

Have you ever considered the contrast between fixing yourself and creating yourself? Trust me, there’s a big energetic difference in both how you approach these two things and the results they bring. And what I know for sure is that you are a masterpiece to be created, not a problem to be fixed. When my […]

Strong Women

Strong Woman - portrait of an African American woman

“And one day she discovered that she was fierce and strong, and full of fire and that not even she could hold herself back because her passion burned brighter than her fears.” – Marcus Antonius (Mark Antony) Whenever I think about what it means to be a strong woman, I think about all the strong […]

On Being High Maintenance

Why embracing being high maintenance will lead to more of what you want in life.

I spent so many years of my life trying to be as low maintenance as possible. And let me tell you, those were the worst years of my life. I was so scared of being perceived a certain way that I never put myself first. As that changed over the years, my life improved in […]

Abundance Vs. Lack

Abundance concept - lakeside picnic

When it comes to abundance versus lack, there are specific characteristics that women with an abundance mindset have, which those with a scarcity mindset don’t.  These women understand that when we view life from a place of lack, that’s how we’ll experience it.  Conversely, we can joyfully watch our world change as we manifest what […]

Creating Desire

How to start creating true desire for the things you want in your life.

Do you find yourself wanting one thing, and yet your actions are not aligned with what you want at all? For example, let’s say you want to lose weight, but you find yourself overeating at midnight. What’s going on there? It all comes down to desire. If you say you want to lose weight, but […]