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The Edit #72

I’m currently at my parents’ house getting ready to celebrate Thanksgiving. We have the turkey ready to go into the oven, the adults are lounging around watching old movies, and I brought a good book to curl up with. As I sit here, I am crazy grateful for this beautiful mess I call my life […]

The Edit #59

Level-headed. Relaxed. Calm. Laid back. I’m talking about my dad, the chillest man I know. (This issue is for him.) I once thought he may be hiding a secret love for weed because he’s THAT chill. Turns out he’s never tried it in his entire life. It’s just his demeanor. I remember loving to be around my dad […]

How to Chill Out

In this episode, Tonya Leigh discusses the importance of chilling out and finding relaxation in our lives. She shares her personal experiences with anxiety and the tendency to be intense and controlling. Tonya explores whether this mindset serves us and if we want to change it. She also touches on a conversation she had with […]

The Edit #53

For years, I tried to keep something BIG a secret.  Bulimia.   I was ashamed. I didn’t want people to know that I stuffed my face with donut holes only to purge minutes later. I didn’t want people to see my pain, so I put on a happy face. And that secret almost killed me […]

The Edit #52

“How can I love myself more today?” Lately, I have been asking myself this question every morning … and my response might surprise you. It’s not to pamper myself (though I do LOVE a good massage and manicure). It’s to push myself. To move my body, make my bed first thing, dress in a way that makes me feel […]

The Edit #51

I cried as I held her… … the beautiful pink dress I wore in Paris almost ten years ago. (If you’ve been around for a while, you know.)  As I decided to let her go, I felt a flood of emotions. So much more than a dress. She represented an era — the emotions of a divorce, […]

The Edit #50

In 2020, many of us found ourselves in a style rut. Big stretchy pants, loose shirts, and house slippers became the world’s uniform. I am sorry to say that not even I could escape this trend, Tiffany. In March of that year… I wore pajamas for seven days straight. During that week, I noticed I […]

The Edit #49

I’ll never forget these wise words from a French woman I met who seemed to have it all figured out: “There are three things you do every day, Tonya. Eat, get dressed, and spend time in your home. Master these three things.” At the time, I was struggling with my weight, my go-to outfit was […]

The Edit #48

Style is about SO much more than the clothes we wear, Tiffany. It’s a language we speak to the world. It’s manifesting who we are becoming. A wealthy woman, a joyful woman, a bold woman. To catalyze your personal RENAISSANCE and embody that woman, you must first dress the part. This does NOT mean you have to rush […]

The Edit #47

I spent most of my early adulthood taking action for one purpose: to achieve a goal. Now, don’t get me wrong, Tiffany, I love a good goal.  In fact, I encourage every single woman within the School of Self-Image to choose an Extraordinary Goal for the year.  Goals grow us. Goals guide us.Goals focus us… … but if […]