Declining Mediocrity

Recently I asked someone how she was doing, and she said, “I’m at homeostasis. Balancing the good and the bad.” She was joking, of course, but it got me thinking. How can homeostasis possibly be satisfying? Just being OK. Getting by. Making from day-to-day in a regular kind of way. Ordinary. Very very far from […]
Getting What You Want

Allow me to preface this post by saying this: You get to want what you want without apology. I think this is so important to say because many women struggle with asking for, and getting, what they want and allowing that to be OK. Now, the best way to get what you want from life […]
Strong Women

“And one day she discovered that she was fierce and strong, and full of fire and that not even she could hold herself back because her passion burned brighter than her fears.” – Marcus Antonius (Mark Antony) Whenever I think about what it means to be a strong woman, I think about all the strong […]
Abundance Vs. Lack

When it comes to abundance versus lack, there are specific characteristics that women with an abundance mindset have, which those with a scarcity mindset don’t. These women understand that when we view life from a place of lack, that’s how we’ll experience it. Conversely, we can joyfully watch our world change as we manifest what […]
Personal Power

“Your personal power is not something that is going to reveal itself at some later date. Your power is a result of your decision to reveal it. You are powerful in whatever moment you choose to be.” -Marianne Williamson. Many of us don’t really understand what personal power is or what it means. As little […]
On Aging and Visibility

“Often now this body she wore (she stopped to look at a Dutch picture), this body, with all its capacities, seemed nothing – nothing at all. She had the oddest sense of being herself invisible, unseen; unknown.” – Virginia Woolf “Mrs. Dalloway.” Aging and invisibility seem to go hand in hand – at least according […]
Keeping Your Promises

I ’m going to give you the number one secret to having an extraordinary life. Are you ready for it? Keep the promises that you make to yourself. It really is that simple. Nothing will erode your relationship with you more than constantly breaking promises to yourself, which is unfortunately what so many of us […]
On Raising Your Vibration

Raising Your Vibration Is Easy; You Need Only Put It into Practice. Everything vibrates with energy – from rocks and plants to fire or water and electricity – all at different speeds and intensities. We humans also vibrate with energy and do so at different frequencies, often resulting from what is happening with us mentally, […]
Audacious Updates

W e are well over halfway through the year, which is crazy to think about, and what a year it’s been so far. Now, you may remember at the start of 2021, I told you all my word of the year: audacious. Well, I’ve got some updates for you all about how that’s played out […]
The Elegance of Kindness

Turns Out, Kindness is an Essential Element of Elegance “Kindness is like snow – It beautifies everything it covers.” – Kahlil Gibran Someone recently posted the question on Quora: What are the traits of an elegant woman? And, interestingly, the quality of kindness came up again and again. Here were some of the interesting […]